September 4, 2010
The National Restaurant Association (NRA) recently tweeted 9 tips for eating out with kids. Five of the nine recommendations admonish diners to reduce calories and fat. I find this fascinating. Most children are not obese or overweight. Why are these recommendations slanted to presume every child needs to reduce fat and calories?
Most people don’t go to restaurants with a radar honed to minimize fat and calories. The people I know who filter foods so carefully are typically chronic dieters, someone with a recent diagnosis, and those who could be diagnosed with an eating disorder.
Fat is a valuable ingredient that enhances flavor and satiety. Calories are not the enemy. Calories represent energy. The point is not to avoid calories, but to get enough and not too much.
EATING WELL EATING OUT
I would love to see recommendations that work for everyone. Recommendations that encourage parents and children to figure out an approach to food that works for them. Recommendations that put aside the chastising admonishments to cut calories and fat by avoiding any sauce, any dressing, anything fried. Recommendations that encourage people to find food’s rightful place.
1. Enjoy food when you are hungry.
Hunger is your body’s signal it need some energy. We get energy from the calories in our food. Pay attention to see if you are really hungry or feeling something else. Hunger is an anxious feeling. It is easy to misinterpret excitement, worry, and other anxious feelings as hunger.
2. Try choosing a meal that has some of each: protein, produce and modest amounts of of starch and fat.
It is easier if you have a picture of what that looks like. See the plate below for a reasonable idea.
3. Choose a good source of protein at every meal. It can help you feel satisfied.
Excellent sources of high quality protein are found in animal foods like beef, chicken, turkey, fish, pork and lamb. Protein is also found in animal products like milk, eggs, cheese and yogurt.
There are good sources of protein in many vegetables like beans and legumes (eg: soybeans, pinto beans, split peas and lentils); some vegetables are rich in protein like spinach and broccoli. Nuts and seeds as well as nut butters like peanut butter also are sources of protein.
4. Choose side dishes from choices made with fruits, vegetables, beans and legumes.
Fruits, vegetables, beans and legumes are great sources of energy because most of their calories come from carbohydrates. Carbohydrates burn quickly. Your body can use those calories for energy right away.
5. Consider choosing only one or two foods that are prepared with added fat.
Not everything needs to fried, drowning in butter, or covered in sauces and salad dressing. Sometimes less is more–more flavor, even more satisfaction.
6. Stop eating when you have enjoyed “enough.”
Teach your children as you teach yourself how to manage different portions. Some restaurant are overly generous, others may be a little stingy. It is not the restaurant’s job to determine how much you need to eat.
Try ordering a la carte or splitting orders. Ask for a take-away container. Taking food home is a great way to enjoy a delicious and convenient meal or snack tomorrow.
7. Enjoy the experience
Eating out is an opportunity to enjoy different foods, new flavors, or your favorite special meal. The experience doesn’t inherently give license to overeat or pig out. Additionally, overeating doesn’t necessarily enhance the experience.
Too many kids suffer needless stomach aches, even vomiting, when they are carelessly allowed or encouraged to overindulge. It is a gift to know the difference between indulging in the experience of eating out and eating indulgently.
8. There is no value in overeating to get your money’s worth
Anyone who has been coerced to eat more than they want to save a starving child or because it is already paid for can now sigh relief. There is no value in overeating. No starving child has ever been fed because you finished everything on your plate.
The cost of treating obesity, diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and other illnesses is thousands of times more expensive than “wasting” some food. Choose restaurants that serve reasonable portions. Speak to the management if you are considering not returning to a restaurant because it is too hard to eat well. Change happens.
BETTER CHOICES IN KIDS MEALS EVERYWHERE
In 2005 I surveyed kid’s meal options in sit down restaurants and upscale hotels and resorts. Less than 7% of restaurants offered a fruit or vegetable to children on their menus. Less than 5% of resorts and hotels offered a side of fruit or vegetable on the kid’s meal menus.
Fast forward to 2007. Fast food restaurants had been offering healthier options since 2003. Finally the rest of the restaurant industry was getting on board. A full 70% of all restaurants surveyed were offering a fruit, vegetable or “choose your side” option on the kid’s menus. Parents and children could choose from baby carrots, apple slices and applesauce. There were salad and soup options, even broccoli and other steamed vegetables.
BETTER FOOD CHOICES ARE OFTEN NOT CHOSEN
Granted, not everyone takes advantage of the options. I consult for McDonald’s and was responsible for the Happy Meal Option coming into existence in Southern California. I know only 8% of Happy Meals are sold with the apple dippers instead of the fries. This fact reveals that restaurants will not be successful if they are alone in this effort.
In 2010 the National Restaurant Association identified healthy kids meals as one of their priorities. Now parents. families, and every other influencer, from the family doctor to school nurses, teachers and fitness experts need to step in and help children and families effectively navigate our very complex food environment.
Both “sit down” and fast food restaurants offer healthier choices as well as indulgent choices. Look for the options, ask questions. In these difficult economic times, most managers want to please the customer. Return business is key.
Allow food it’s rightful place. It is nourishment. It is also calories and nutrients. But food is so much more. Celebrating food in its rightful place allows each of us to enjoy the social, cultural and tantalizing sensory experience food can be.